The Twist Before the Crown: What I Wish I Knew Before Starting My Natural Hair Journey

I remember the day I stood in front of my bathroom mirror, scissors in hand, staring at my relaxed ends like they were the villains in a superhero movie. Dramatic? Maybe. But to me, it was the start of something bold—my natural hair journey.

I wasn’t entirely sure what I was doing. I just knew I was tired of heat damage, breakage, and running from rain like it was acid. I craved freedom. I wanted to see what my real hair could do. But whew, I had no idea what was waiting on the other side of that big chop.

If you're thinking of embracing your natural roots, or you're already a few twist-outs in, here's what I wish someone had whispered to me when I began.

1. Your Texture Is Yours and It's Beautiful

I spent the first few months obsessing over YouTubers whose hair curled like springs and grew like weeds. Mine didn’t. I had shrinkage. I had tangles. I had 4C coils that refused to "hang" but loved to thrive. It took time (and tears) to realize that my texture wasn’t broken, it was brilliant.

Flourish Tip: Stop comparing. Start caring. Fall in love with your crown, not someone else’s.

2. Moisture Is Queen

Say it with me: Dryness is the enemy. Your natural hair craves moisture like your skin craves lotion in winter. I used to slap on some oil and think I’d done enough. Nope. Water-based leave-ins, deep conditioners, protective styles, and satin everything became my new besties.

Flourish Tip: Hydration first, then seal with love. You can try some hydrating products on our page.

3. Protective Styles Aren’t Just for Convenience

Braids, twists, bantu knots—they’re not just cute. They give your strands a break. While this is important, your hair still needs care underneath. Don’t ignore it because it’s hidden. Wash, moisturize, and protect your scalp.

Flourish Tip: Let our stylist at Flourish Beauty Palace give you a protective style that’s gentle, stylish, and growth-friendly.

4. You’ll Learn Patience Like Never Before

Natural hair doesn’t always show progress the way you expect. One month, you’re a curly goddess. The next? A matted puff you can’t finger-detangle. But keep going. Growth happens, not just on your scalp, but in your confidence, your knowledge, and your pride.

Flourish Tip: Take photos. Celebrate the journey, not just the inches.

5. You’re Going to Inspire Someone Even When You Don’t Know It

I’ll never forget the day a little girl stopped me in the store and said, “I like your hair.” That moment reminded me that this journey is more than personal, it's powerful. When you embrace your roots, you give someone else permission to do the same.

From the Mirror to the Movement

Your natural hair journey will test you, teach you, and transform you. And the best part? You don’t have to do it alone.

At Flourish Beauty Palace, we celebrate every kink, coil, and curl. Whether you're big chopping, transitioning, or just trying to figure out what “LOC method” means, we’ve got the tools, stylists, and community to support you.

Ready to flourish with your crown?
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